Sexual Advisor

Magazines, books and the Internet

The publications of various kinds such as magazines or books (as well as online publications) represent 13% of the primary sources from which young people find information on sex. Sex is now a topic that most taxes paid in the publishing world,contrary to what happens in families and schools. Many magazines and Internet portals or sections contain entire sections devoted to sex. Learn information fromthese sources can be positive if the contents are processed in a professional manner, so they are good quality and give correct information. The only drawback isthat, especially for the young and inexperienced, you can find before information is not detailed enough, however abstruse or from a context that helps to steer them.
Staying in the web, we must not forget the role of forums, chat and community, whichcan be very useful as a direct comparison with other people. But even in this case we speak of education incomplete: it can be compared to those shown talking with friends, even if they change the dynamics of interaction

Parents

All parents fear like the plague the moment when their little children will begin to find some ‘idiot asking for clarification of the stork story more depth. The embarrassment is king: it is very difficult to tap certain topics with their children calmly, once again all because of embarrassment and taboos that still surround the subject of sex, not to mention the strong emotional involvement because of tackle such a sensitive subject with a child. There are many parents who do everything they can to bypass the issue or otherwise deal with it in a dismissive, believing that their children receive the necessary information out of the house, just as there are conscientious parents, willing and uninhibited seeking to address the situation with the most great serenity. Very often the tough nuts to crack is fastened her mother, considered to be more sensitive as a woman and thus more “suitable” to address the topic.
But you need to make a simple fact: even the most available parents can give their children a good sex education but still incomplete, the banal fact that there are professionals.

The school

The role of basic sexual education of young people, logically, should lie with the schools, which are expected to provide full and complete courses, with experienced and qualified staff, that does not leave anything to chance, and above all be able to face all aspects of sexuality, including the sentimental.
Instead, the current landscape is pretty bleak. The first legislative proposal dedicated to sex education in Italian schools dates back to 1975 but since then little has happened and nothing. In fact, the topic “sex” in school is touched only in biology, a field which is limited to puramenti physiological aspects, and teachers of religion, with all the limitations of ideological positions that the Catholic vision entails. The situation is different in other countries: Sweden, sex education has been compulsory since 1956, the United States and Canada since 1965 dal1984; in France was added in 1973.
Schools have the opportunity to organize courses of sex education, but are not obliged to: consequences of such courses are only for inizitiva of some institutions.Considering that research and polls continue to experience endemic ignorance of Italian teenagers on important issues such as contraception, it might be more interesting to worry about real sex education courses mandatory in all schools, rather than 6 in conduct